Monday, 3 August 2009

Communication is crucial to really get to know someone

At MKCC we talked yesterday about one of the ingredients that makes a marriage work - communication. We talked about the need to invest quality time in doing this. Plan for it!

When did we last talk about.....?

1. Our Childhood....
2. Our wedding....
3. Our musical tastes....
4. Our finances....
5. Our hopes and dreams....
6. Our fears
7. Our Our sexual relationship
8. Our Christin beliefs and desire to follow Christ
9. Our dream Holiday
10. Our likes and dislikes within our relationship
10. Our future

You can remain at a superficial level in your relationship our discover the joy of intimacy in conversation and really get to know your spouse. I have been surprised many times in my role as a pastor how people can be married for years but do not really know each other. They have never taken the time to really talk and understand each other. Don't let this happen to you. It's your choice!

Talk with your spouse today and get some time booked out to talk together. If you do this, I garauntee it will make a world of difference in your relationship.

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