Thanks to Dave Kraft for posting this article - very helpful for leaders who see the importance of building safeguards into their lives and ministries.
Author Jim Collins (Good to
Great) also wrote a book titled, “How The Mighty Fall.” It deals with why
companies fail and fall. In Scripture, we also observe story after story
(especially in the Old Testament) about mighty leaders falling. Things haven’t
changed much in this regard. Well known and seemingly successful leaders both
in the church and in the world of business are “Falling.” Chuck Lawless shares
eight steps that can assuredly lead to a fall. Please read carefully and
prayerfully with an open heart to the Holy Spirit. Originally posted by Chuck Lawless
I love hiking and
backpacking. Recently, I read an article about recognizing “critters” in an
area by looking at footprint tracks in the dirt. Some tracks aren’t alarming,
but others say, “Be careful. There could be trouble in the area.” Based on my
knowledge of far too many moral failures among church leaders, here are some
“footprint tracks” that could signal upcoming trouble:
1. An unhealthy marriage
somewhere. It might be that only a few people know the troubles, but
every moral failure I’ve seen occurred in the context of somebody’s struggling
marriage.
2. Undisciplined living. I’ve never met a
fallen leader who says, “But, I was walking faithfully with God, reading the
Word and praying intimately – and the affair just happened.” I’ve met several,
though, who admit they weren’t meeting with God in their spiritual disciplines
at the time of their fall.
3. Ministry
companionship. Some church-based affairs begin with two people doing
ministry together in some setting – perhaps as simple as serving on a committee
together. The time together becomes alluring, and it’s easy to excuse it
because it’s ministry.
4. Unwise sharing. If you want to
invite trouble, tell someone of the opposite gender the difficulties you’re
having in your own marriage. Even pastors must be careful when they’re in
counseling situations dealing with such matters.
5. Email or social media
flirting. It’s surely not an affair. It’s only jesting. Just words,
and just for fun. Nobody really means anything . . . . except that I don’t want
anybody else to see what we’re writing . . . .
6. Conversational hints. People in the
midst of a fall sometimes inadvertently give hints about what’s going on. They
speak more often about the person. They respond differently when the person’s
in the room. The problem is that others don’t recognize the “tracks” until
after the failure’s made public.
7. Emotional connections. More than once,
I’ve heard, “But, it was just an emotional affair.” That may well have been the
case, but I’ve also never seen a physical affair that didn’t start with an
emotional connection – tracks that indicate coming trouble.
8. Ongoing lies. It’s hard to
have moral failure without telling lies at some point. In fact, it’s not
uncommon that the church leader living a lie also lies about other stuff as
well.
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