Tuesday, 9 February 2016

Tem Leadership lessons I learned from George Washington by Tony Morgan

A Great Post by Tony!
Washington on Mount Rushmore by Ronda Darby Unsplash CC0
Over the holidays, I had the opportunity to read Washington: A Life by Ron Chernow. This biography of our first president won a Pulitzer Prize.
As you might imagine, there are many leadership lessons to be learned from studying the life of George Washington. These are ten that stood out to me:
  1. My character and integrity, good or bad, will shape the culture of the entire organization.

    “Washington believed that courage and cowardice originated from the top of an army. As he wrote during the American Revolution: ‘This is the true secret . . . that wherever a regiment is well officered, the men have behaved well—when otherwise, ill—the [misconduct]or cowardly behavior always originating with the officers, who have set the example.’”
  2. Don’t pursue leadership, let it come to me.

    “The hallmark of Washington’s career was that he didn’t seek power but let it come to him.”
  3. People are watching for my reaction.

    “One lesson he had learned from the French and Indian War was that fear was contagious in battle, especially among inexperienced troops.”
  4. Seek the counsel of other wise leaders.

    “Equipped with keen powers of judgment rather than originality, he was at his best when reacting to options presented by others. Once he made up his mind, it was difficult to dislodge him from his opinion, so thoroughly had he plumbed things through to the bottom.”
  5. Embrace contrary opinions.

    “It was true that Washington surrounded himself with loyal men, but he never walled himself off from contrary opinion or tried to force his views on his generals.”
  6. Freely acknowledge the contributions of others.

    “Never loath to credit his officers, Washington trumpeted Wayne’s virtues to Congress: ‘He improved upon the plan recommended by me and executed it in a manner that does signal honor to his judgment and to his bravery.’”
  7. Believe the best in others.

    “As a stalwart realist, he thought it dangerous to demand perfection from any human production and questioned ‘the propriety of preventing men from doing good, because there is a possibility of their doing evil.’”
  8. Expect unity from the team.

    “Through his tolerant attitude, he created a protective canopy under which subordinates could argue freely, but once decisions were made, he wanted the administration to speak with one voice.”
  9. Don’t make decisions too quickly.

    “Hamilton concurred that the president ‘consulted much, pondered much; resolved slowly, resolved surely.’ By delaying decisions, he made sure that his better judgment prevailed over his temper.”
  10. Stay focused.

    Washington had a “tenacity of purpose, his singular ability to stalk a goal with all the resources at his disposal,” and “George Washington possessed the gift of inspired simplicity, a clarity and purity of vision that never failed him.”
What you may not know about me is that I’m a political junkie. Even though I have a business degree, my Master of Public Administration was obtained through the School of Political Science. In particular, I love presidential politics. The history. The strategy. The leadership. The personalities. It’s all fascinating to me.

Friday, 5 February 2016

WHEN TO BRING IT UP – WHEN TO LET IT GO

A great post by Dan Rockwell!

Leaders who bring up every little failure, issue, or shortcoming are irritating nags. They can’t let it go. 


When you blab on about trivialities, talented people want to pull their hair out. Or they want to grab yours.

Let it go:

Leaders who dig into small issues waste their talent on trivialities.
  1. Mind your business.
    • Insecurity expresses itself as a need to know everything.
    • Arrogance makes you believe you can fix people.
    • Meddling inspire apprehension – apprehension slows progress.
  2. Establish priorities. Leaders without priorities chase rabbits and discourage teams. The only way to let go of insignificant behaviors is to do what matters now. You aren’t worthy to lead until you know what  matters now.
  3. Lean toward silence with a smile. Most extroverted leaders talk too much. The only thing worse than an excited extrovert is a cloistered introvert. At least you know what the extrovert thinks. Both create anxiety.
  4. Establish reporting only where issues matter.
  5. Protect your headspace. On a scale of 1-10, how much does this issue matter?Let others worry about 6’s or 7’s.

Bring it up if:

  1. The failure is about character. Being on time doesn’t take a high IQ.
  2. You expect others to take action. Stop expressing opinions. Are you simply blabbing on because you’re in love with your own voice, or do you expect something to change?
  3. You hear excuses, rather than responsibility.
  4. It’s a pattern. Once is fine – three times, it’s time to talk.
  5. Others fall below their capabilities.
    • What are their strengths?
    • Are they able?
    • How much improvement is possible?
  6. They aspire to be better? Don’t pour yourself into those who don’t care.
  7. You can adjust their role away from failure or weakness.
Bonus: Bring it up, if they’re working to improve, but persistently frustrated.

Wednesday, 6 January 2016

Busyness that distracts from people is deadly to organizational energy.



A great post from Dan Rockwell - Let's all learn something from this.  Thanks Dan!
You can’t lead and neglect people at the same time.
Busyness that distracts from people is deadly to organisational energy. 

Don’t let paperwork and meetings prevent you from quarterly one-on-ones with your team. People aren’t the problem. How to maximize your time with them is.

People:

Moving the ball down the field is your secondary concern; players are the first.

Successful one-on-ones:
  1. Create positive energy.
  2. Eliminate distractions. We all have tendencies to waste energy by getting off target.
  3. Demonstrate belief. You must believe in people to influence them in positive ways.
  4. Release passion.
  5. Focus talent. Good people may end up spread too thin.
  6. Strengthen respect. Don’t worry about people respecting you. Show respect to them.
  7. Move the ball down the field.
One-on-ones, when done well, energize organizations. Not because leaders are so wonderful, but because everyone wants to succeed and feel good about their role. One-on-ones are opportunities to help others maximize their contribution.
Evaluate your leadership by how well you energize others.

Energy:

Good people are hard on themselves. Compassion frees you to focus on another’s talent, passion, and contribution.

Conversations often turn toward negatives, even when you ask for positives.
  1. “What do you want,” is often met with what they don’t want.
  2. “What would you like to do,” often initiates conversations about things that didn’t work. 
  3. “What are we successfully doing,” may be met with descriptions of what isn’t being done.
Allow people to explore what they don’t like. Don’t solve it. After they explain an issue, fuel energy by asking:
  1. What do you want?
  2. What can you do? (Think observable behaviors.)
  3. How might I help?
  4. What’s next?
The danger of problem-solving is it may distract leaders from what matters – maximizing people.

Successful one-on-ones are two way conversations, not performance reviews or inquisitions.

Monday, 21 December 2015

You aren’t fit to lead until you know how to follow.

Thanks for your wisdom Dan Rockwell!

If you want to become a good leader, follow a leader of character, conviction, and vision.  Don’t ask people to follow you until you’ve humbly followed someone else.
You aren’t fit to lead until you know how to follow.

Following is perhaps the most neglected development principle of remarkable leadership. Ego wants to be the leader. Humility, on the other hand, aspires to add value and make a difference, regardless of position.

Opportunities abound for dedicated followers. But opportunities pass by while you’re waiting to become a leader.

Jimmy Collins, the retired COO of Chick-fil-A, and author of, “Creative Followership,” said, “Seeking Leadership roles never produced anything for me. When I chose the follower role there was no end to what I could accomplish.”

  • Follow advice from those more knowledgeable.
  • Follow a vision bigger than yourself.
  • Follow someone you respect. Get behind the most noble person available.
  • Follow someone who is going somewhere.

Good leaders are good followers.

Our admiration of big-egoed-leaders degrades us all.

Worry less about becoming a great leader and more about becoming a great follower.


A couple of questions for you to ponder:

What role does following play in developing leaders?

What role does following play in the day-to-day life of successful leaders?

Monday, 9 November 2015

SUCCESSFUL LEADERS HELP OTHERS SOLVE PROBLEMS

Too much problem-solving is a problem. Dis-empowered employees want you to solve their problems for them.

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12 Steps to Stress free problem solving:

#1. Choose compassion, not solution. Solving problems for others is stressful and perhaps a little arrogant. Begin problem-solving conversations with an open heart toward people. Focus on them – help them focus on the problem.  Every time you solve problems others could solve, you weaken the problem-solving power of your team.

#2. Determine if the problem is one only you should solve. Own it if it’s yours.

#3. Give the monkey back. People walk into your office with a monkey they want you to own. Every problem you own – that isn’t yours – limits your ability to lead.

#4. Set your solution aside. Solutions you provide invite dependency. It might be good for your ego, but it doesn’t strengthen organizational capacity.

#5. Relax. You aren’t going to solve their problem, they are.

#6. Create small buckets. Divide big problems into small buckets. 

#7. Choose a bucket.  Asked which issues were most pressing. 

#8. Encourage people to focus on what they want. 

#9. Encourage positive language. “How might you shift what you just said from negative to positive?”

#10. Focus on their behaviors, not the behavior of others. They can’t control others.

#11. Explore small changes. Aim low to reach high.

#12. Try something. It might not be perfect but it is progress.

Thursday, 22 October 2015

Five things a leader does


Leadership is complex and there are lessons to learn for all of us no matter where we see ourselves or where we may think we are on a leadership scale.  

Five things I find helpful to keep myself on track in leading others:

1.  Model the way  
This is about being authentic and genuine with others around you.  By all means learn but please model! Fail here and you will be found out quickly!  Others want to see the evidence of the knowledge and that means how you live consistently.  It's no good talking the talk you have to walk the walk.  Practice what you preach!  Dishing out the latest leadership lesson with no back-up of your example is shallow and short lived, leaving those you attempt to lead confused, frustrated and  and often in despair.

2. Inspire shared vision
It is crucial for a visionary leader to inspire others about the mission and the vision regularly. However, it is also equally important to inspire and allow others to be a part the visionary development process. Good leaders value their teams wisdom, experience, perspectives, challenges, gifts and commitment. This is crucial to anyone who aspires to to be a leader of leaders.  Team also provides accountability to all in fulfilling the vision.

3. Challenge the process
If you want things to be better, if you want others to grow do not settle for the 'status quo.'   Reviews, and analysis are important.  Examine results, look at performance, Ask challenging questions: Why are we doing this? Is what we are doing working?  Where are the weaknesses? What needs to change?  What are the threats?  Develop a strategy from this to implement the actions you need to take to move things forward.  

4. Empower others to make decisions
Delegation without giving authority dis-empowers development and personal growth. Remember that! A leader assists others to make good decisions.  Ask yourself, what does each person on your team need to learn to make better decisions.  Suggest ways the people around you can grow.  Fid resource to help them: books, websites, blogs, podcasts, training events, conferences, visit other churches, meet with other leaders, etc. 

5. Encourage regularly
People who are encouraged thrive!  They sense their contribution is valued and are empowered in their role as part of the team.  Look for opportunities to encourage others in around you constantly.  If issues need to be challenged, take people aside, connect them again to the vision, express their importance and value of their role, then tackle the issues - can we talk about what's not working or what just happened.  Leadership influence for the long haul  rises and falls on this issue.

Monday, 19 October 2015

What followers want the most from their leader

What leadership behavior do employees and team members most want from their leaders?

You’ll be surprised! 
Here is Dan Rockwell to share his insights.
Originally posted by Dan Rockwell

The Leadership Behavior Employees Want The Most

We often search for the most important thing. Christine Porath, associate professor at Georgetown University, along with other researchers, believe the leadership behavior that employees most want is  respect.
48% of people who experience disrespect at work intentionally decrease their work effort. 78% are less committed to their organization.*
“Being treated with respect was more important to employees than recognition and appreciation, communicating an inspiring vision, providing useful feedback — or even opportunities for learning, growth, and development.” Christine Porath
Respect is a feeling, but showing respect is a behavior.

Ten things that make people feel disrespected:

1.  Looking at computer screens and cell phones during conversations.
2.  Outburst of anger.
3.  Cursing and slang.
4.  One sided conversations. Not listening.
5.  Wasting people’s time.
6.  Asking people to re-do work, even though clear instructions weren’t given up front.
7.  Not following up.
8.  Not showing up for meetings.
9.  Aggressiveness.
10.  Lies.

Seven ways to show respect:

1.  Speak to aspirations.
2.  Talk more about strengths than weaknesses.
3.  Ask, “What do you think?”
4.  Take time to ponder suggestions.
5.  Focus on issues not personalities during disagreements.
6.  Say please and thank you.
7.  Feeling understood.
Feeling respected is an individual matter. You must know people in order to respect them. You might try asking, “What could I do that would show my respect for you?”

Three Qualities that enable leaders to show respect:

1.  Humility.
2.  Compassion.
3.  Trust.
What makes you feel disrespected? Respected?
How might leaders make teammates feel respected?